Push Presents: The Meaning Behind the New-Mother Gift

A new baby arrives, and with it a question more partners are asking: what is the gift for her? The push present, a gift given to a mother to mark the birth of her child, has moved from Hollywood rumour to mainstream tradition. Here is where it came from, what it means, and how to choose one that will still matter in thirty years.

What a push present is

A push present, sometimes called a push gift, is a present given to a mother to mark the occasion of giving birth, usually from her partner. It can be given before the birth, after it, or even in the delivery room. There are no rules about timing or form; the point is simply to honour what she has carried and done. Etiquette expert Pamela Holland puts it best: the standard is that there is no standard. It is too intimate a gift for rules.

Older than the name

The term is new, but the gesture is not. Jewellery given to a new mother runs through many cultures and centuries, with some tracing the tradition to Britain, India and Egypt as a symbol of fertility, strength and new life. The most famous historical example sits in the Smithsonian: the Napoleon Diamond Necklace, given by Napoleon to his wife Marie Louise in 1811 on the birth of their son. The modern label spread mostly by word of mouth, then accelerated through celebrity coverage, from Rachel Zoe's 10 carat diamond ring to the diamond and sapphire necklace Mariah Carey received after the birth of her twins.

How common is it?

More common than you might think, and more optional too. A BabyCenter survey of over 30,000 respondents found that 38% of new mothers had received a push present and 55% of pregnant mothers hoped for one, while around 40% of both groups felt the baby was quite enough of a gift on its own. That spread of opinion is the healthiest way to see the tradition: warmly welcomed, never owed.

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Why jewellery became the classic

Push presents can be anything, but jewellery holds the top spot for a reason. A birth changes everything except a beautiful object: a ring, necklace or bracelet stays exactly as it was on the day it was given, carrying the memory forward unchanged. It is also the most personalisable of gifts. A stone, an engraving, a date or an initial can tie the piece to the child forever, and one day the piece itself can be passed down to them.

Choosing one well

Meaning leads. Many parents choose the baby's birthstone, worked into a ring, pendant or pair of earrings. Others prefer an engraving: a name, initials or a birth date inside a band. Think about her daily life too; new mothers often favour pieces that are smooth, secure and easy to wear around a newborn, so low-profile settings and sturdy clasps are thoughtful details. And if a big piece feels like a lot, start a tradition instead: a first charm for a bracelet that can grow with each milestone to come.

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Sources

• Push present - Wikipedia
• 20 Best Push Present Ideas to Spoil the New Mom - Good Housekeeping
• Perfect Push Presents for New Moms - The Bump