Anniversary Gemstones by Year: The Complete List for Years 1 to 20

Flowers wilt and chocolates vanish, but a gemstone given on an anniversary is still being worn at the next one. The tradition of marking each wedding anniversary with a particular gem is surprisingly well organised: there is an accepted list, year by year, and knowing it turns gift panic into a quick decision.

Where the list comes from

Anniversary gifts are an old idea. Some trace the custom to Ancient Rome; others credit the Victorian era, which put love at the centre of marriage, with cementing it. Unlike birthstones, there is no single official list of anniversary gemstones, but the guide developed by GIA and other leading trade authorities has become the accepted reference. Small variations between lists exist, which is a feature, not a bug: it gives you room to choose.

The first ten years

1st: Gold. The metal itself, or gold-coloured stones such as citrine, yellow topaz or yellow sapphire. 2nd: Garnet. Deep red, or one of its rarer green cousins. 3rd: Pearls. Classic, and endlessly wearable. 4th: Blue topaz, a symbol of eternal love and loyalty. 5th: Sapphire. Fitting, for a marriage built to last. 6th: Amethyst. St Valentine himself supposedly wore an amethyst ring carved with Cupid. 7th: Onyx, sleek and graphic. 8th: Tourmaline, which comes in nearly every colour. 9th: Lapis lazuli, blue flecked with gold. 10th: Diamond. A decade, marked by the hardest gem of all.

Years eleven through twenty

11th: Turquoise. 12th: Jade. 13th: Citrine, warm as candlelight. 14th: Opal, fire locked in stone. 15th: Ruby, for the princess, or prince, of your heart. 16th: Peridot, green with a golden glow. 17th: Wristwatches, the one non-gem entry on the list. 18th: Cat's-eye chrysoberyl, with its floating band of light. 19th: Aquamarine, calm and clear. 20th: Emerald. Two decades, celebrated in green.

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Using the list well

Treat the list as a starting brief, not homework. If the year's stone does not suit the person, use its colour as the theme instead, and if it does suit them, the list quietly solves twenty years of gifts. The tenth anniversary deserves a special mention: diamond is the traditional stone, and lab-grown diamonds have made a tenth-anniversary diamond, whether studs, a pendant or an eternity band, a realistic gift rather than a once-in-a-lifetime one.

Presentation does half the work. A note that says what the stone is, and why this year, turns a pretty object into the story of a marriage.

Make it personal

The strongest anniversary gifts combine the year's stone with something only the two of you would understand. A citrine for year thirteen set in the metal colour she actually wears. An opal for year fourteen engraved on the back with the date. A fifteenth-anniversary ruby chosen in the shade of the roses from the wedding. The list supplies the theme; your history supplies the detail. And if you are reading this for someone else's anniversary, parents, friends, a sister, the same trick works: the year's stone plus one personal note beats an expensive but anonymous present every time.

Do not overlook the early years, either. The first ten are the ones nobody plans for, and a small gold pendant for year one or garnet studs for year two sets a tradition that makes every later year easier.

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Sources

• Wedding Anniversary Gemstone List: Years One through 10 - GIA 4Cs
• Wedding Anniversary Gemstone List: Years 11 through 20 - GIA 4Cs
• Anniversary Gifts By Year - International Gem Society